as low as it gets . ...................... sigh

am constantly meeting people who compare themselves with the ever anorexic super-models........ n the media plays its part fairly well ........ fairness creams was bad enough but now its fairness cream for men !!!!!!! whatever happened to the tall DARK n handsome men ....... whatever happened to the men smelling of sweet hard-working sweat ............. now-days one can possess the scent of anything they desire , musk, floral, sea, fruity, etc etc etc ........... maybe am just plain ol' school ............
every commercial break is packed with creams n beauty aids which insists that one can win a music/dance competition cos afterall they are fair n oh my god gorgeous...((plus the fact that dusky and brown women r more appreciated globally seems to make no difference in people's morale ))... the media tries to preach us that only if one doesn't have acne can one ever have good pals............

do they think v r this superficial ............... or r v this superficial ....... cos they seem to be making profit out of making us feel low about ourselves and judging us n others around us based on who's hair shines n is frizz free.......... !!!!! so many perfectly beautiful girls are made to believe that they aren't good enough ........ n am amazed at how some1 can get so influenced by any x-y-z n ignore the plain truth that lies in the mirror that they keep staring at ........... its a sad sight when people feel low and don't value themselves....how does one expect others to value them if they don't value themselves,........




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m sorry for such a late post ..............(( exams n stuff .....))

tHe SimplE liFe.......... ((or is it ??? )) ......

the last couple of days I spent out of the city ....... out of the god forsaken taffic.... the ever ruling pollution ..... the noise ......... I stayed in a small town ...... industrial town ... namely tirupur ... the place was neither polluted nor insanely packed with traffic......... it was calm ..... (relatively I guess).... people there were simple... nothing overdone... I thought I wud enjoy the break ....... but lets face it ........ the more I stayed away from home... the more I missed it .... I missed the 24 hours constant buzz of th city ...... ((which made me feel active n alive)) .... I missed the fact that no matter what time of the day it is.. the market area is always crowded.. I missed so many things....sigh......... n these r the same thing that pissed me..... ((n still does)).... guess the saying is right .... nothing feels like home...


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but I can make my peace with the clean fresh air though..... :)

who's to judge ???

At times i ponder is it just me who feels uncomfortable when people judge...... when a girl wears a mini-skirt, or has had couple of relationships the common buzz is that aaaah she a bitch (sorry for the explicit language but come on admit it - it happens whether u like it or not ) ...... oh my she smokes/drinks......n lo behold people start judging again ........ n it just doesn't stop there does it ......they talk about it too....

n it doesnt stop with girls ........ a guy who looks at a gal .... ( u know where) ..... the bastard (judged again) the guy who flirts (again!!!) ..... the list goes on ....

in a world where we as a country are developing isnt it the need of the moment to grow along with it???

Isn't it true that we r given the right of free-will till it hurts somebody....... if it does then its terrorism right ???

but then it gets more complicated...... people getting hurt is a vast topic by itself.... off late moral policing seems to be the talk of the town.... public display of affection hurts the religious sentiments of people and our traditional values........ ???!!!

now am not digging out any conclusion .......... but I don't get it !!!! I really don't get it .........


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Am not supporting drinking, smoking, guys who stare(mind u -its annoying)....... but I do think that its not a reason enough to judge or label anybody.......

Rise n Shine.......

A fresh new blog ....... a new point of view....... n this time it aint about fashion .... its about everything under the sun - the way I see it ... maybe it will assume a shape later on ..... but for now am not labeling it.... I' ll start this blog by saying I don't know where am going , but am on my way ....


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i know i use a lot of ....... :)